I have been in Germany for 4 1/2 months now, have been working at my post-doc for 3 1/2 of those months, and have lived in this new apartment for 1 1/2 months. Below are a few of the topics I most commonly think about when describing my experience thus far.
1. The Post-Doc: The first three months were extreme. On the one hand, it was (and still is) exciting to learn about so many new projects and to work with so many people who are fully engaged in their work. On the other hand, the first three months of the post-doc exposed every single one of my weaknesses regarding office work and consulting culture and barely left any space for me to demonstrate my technical and academic strengths. It was a relief when I recently had a few days to concentrate my efforts on finishing writing a scientific paper, as opposed to troubleshooting a time-budget-constrained consulting project. I definitely enjoy the academic-consulting blend for which my research group is known--it's one of the aspects that drew me to the department in the first place--I just wasn't expecting the learning curve to be so steep. Luckily, every day is an opportunity to improve. Soon my research group will also be working on an academic paper and I look forward to taking the lead on that.
2. Language Skills: My German is definitely improving, if only at a snail's pace. Some days are better than others, and this is especially true for my accent. My grammar is decent--not perfect, but decent--what needs most improvement is my vocabulary. At some point, I lost the habit of reading the newspaper on a daily basis; I need to pick that back up. Reading the paper is good for so many things: language, politics, current events, cultural references that come up in conversation. I also listen to more English-language podcasts than I should. (I listen to podcasts while working on monotonous computer tasks.) The problem is that I haven't found many German podcasts to replace (or complement) my English-language favorites, such as "This American Life", "Science Friday", or "Radio Lab". I'm sure there are some good ones out there; I just need to search a bit more.
3. Food: I love German bakeries and the seemingly endless varieties of hearty German bread. Germans pop into the bakery in the morning for Brötchen in the same way U.S. Americans pop into Dunkin' Donuts or Starbucks. Someone at work joked this past week that, in addition to bread, German cuisine consists of three staples: noodles, meat, and potatoes. As far as stereotypes go, this isn't too far from the truth. The staples are just dressed up in different ways. That said, Stuttgart also has a wide variety of ethnic restaurants, especially Turkish, a few major organic grocery stores, and smaller import stores, such as Indian, "Asian", and "African." One of the first weeks I was in Germany, my friend Lilli took me to get real German/Schwäbisch Spätzle in an old town next to Stuttgart. That was by far one of the best "traditional" meals I have had yet.
4. WG-Life: "WG" stands for "Wohngemeinschaft" and refers to shared living spaces. Currently I am sharing a three-bedroom apartment with two other people. While in the perfect world, I would really prefer to have my own quiet apartment, there are many advantages to the WG-life. Perhaps first and foremost, I would never be able to afford an apartment as nice and cozy as this one in this popular and trendy section of town. Second, my roommates really are great. We share nearly everything, we buy food for the apartment (as opposed to each person buying for themselves), we cook together when our schedules allow, and we even manage to clean without much hassle. While there are certainly days when I just want to be alone, other perks, such as last night's impromptu game night can only happen in a WG.
So those are four of the biggest expat topics from my perspective, however I'm sure there are many more. Leave me a comment if you'd like to read about something else!